In praise of Arranged Marriage

A Proposal I Never Thought I’d Consider. Sabaa Saleem, a student at UCLA, and a summer intern working as a copy editor on The Washington Post’s Foreign desk has a rather interesting argument favoring arranged marriage.

Like so many other young South Asians in America, I am the product of two cultures whose conflicting values pull at me with equal urgency. Never have I felt as torn between the two as I do about the question of marriage. I have been a Californian for all but the first year of my life, when my family lived in Britain, where I was born. I grew up in a small town in the Mojave Desert where conservative Republicans were as common as cacti. Inexplicably, I grew up liberal and a feminist.


Travel Agent, a Gubernatorial candidate

Well everyone has heard about the California Recall and Arnold and 134 other gubernatorial candidates. What you don’t know is that one desi, Tony Srivastava, has thrown his hat in the ring as well.Tony runs a cruise travel agency in Covina, California. We have heard there is another N.R.I. in the race, but no details are forthcoming at this time


Zakaria versus Zakaria

Is all well in the Zakaria household? Farid Zakaria, the best selling author (Future of Freedom et. al) and an editor at Newsweek International has been on a hitting streak that matches Barry Bonds, or if you prefer Sachin Tendulkar. On the flip side, Arshad Zakaria, one of the two other Zakaria’s has just been eased out of Merrill Lynch in a very public corporate coup. Zakaria was the executive vice president of Merrill Lynch, and president of Global Markets & Investment Banking, and had hit a slump on July 29 when mentor Merrill’s executive vice chairman Thomas Patrick was eased out by Stan O’Neal. The Wall Street Journal called it “a brutal public bout of corporate knife-fighting.”

Zakaria belongs to an illustrious Indian Muslim family from Mumbai. He is an alumnus of Cathedral and John Connon School there. He is also a graduate in applied mathematics from Harvard University,


How HI-bs changed California

They were dead giveaways in their shiny white sneakers and dress slacks: hi-tech Indian workers in Silicon Valley on H1-B work visas. But more than Indian surgeons or entrepreneurs, they’ve put Indian Americans on the cultural map nationwide. As the Silicon Valley economy splutters, the ubiquitous H1-B engineers who came to the United States on temporary work visas have become a vanishing breed. Their impact on the cultural landscape, however, is here to stay. [Pacific News]


Dalai Lama Tour 2003

Taking his cue from the Rolling Stones, Tibetan spiritual leader, Dalai Lama, is once again on a Stateside tour.

The Dalai Lama comes back strong in September, with the hype of a concert tour. Earlier this month a brand-new 30-by-40-foot billboard was erected across from the Condé Nast building on Times Square, announcing the Tibetan leader’s arrival for the largest coordinated series of Buddhist-related events ever to occur in the U.S. [Village Voice]

The 20-day tour will include stops in five cities – New York, San Francisco; Bloomington, Indiana; Washington, D.C.; and Boston. Sponsored in part by Tibet Center, the visit is being organized by the Initiatives Foundation, Richard Gere’s public charity. In San Francisco, the biggest mouth since Larry Ellison, Salesforce.com founder and pseudo-Buddhist Marc Benioff will be hosting his holiness, who has seen his popularity come under serious threat from bare-riffed Britney Spears, Kobe Bryant and of course



Hair This

The Wall Street Journal has a fascinating story about how Indian hair donated by devotees visiting the world famous Tirupati temple end up on the head of washed out celebrities like Lisa Marie Presley.

Although India is a small part of the global hair business, compared to the market leader China, so-called Indian temple hair fetches among the highest prices. Indian hair is generally finer than Chinese and more similar to much European and American hair, hairdressers say, making it the lock of choice for certain clients.

And it is proving to be a growth business – hairy business, but surely a growth business.

The temple says it took in $5.6 million through hair auctions — twice as much as the year before.

Who needs software when you can weave a magic spell like this.


The mighty minidisc finds a niche and actually becomes profitable

From Red Herring October 2000 issue

Paul Budnitz is bemused by the falling fortunes of online retailers. For the 32-year-old president and founder of the minidisc e-tailer Minidisco in Berkeley, California, business has never been better.

Introduced by Sony almost eight years ago, the minidisc is about half the size of a compact disc and allows music lovers to record music and play it with near-CD-quality sound. With sales growing at a healthy 27 percent a month, Minidisco will have sales of $11 million in 2000, up 318 percent from sales of $3.45 million in 1999. With net profits of around 10 percent, the three-year-old venture is a rare species: an e-tailer with actual profits. And this with a product that seemed to be going nowhere just two years ago.

Mr. Budnitz has eschewed expensive advertising, hired part-timers, and focused on customer service. Of course, he has been helped by the growing popularity of the minidisc


Backoffice India

From Red Herring October 2000 issue

Every so often India is rediscovered. Hippies in the ’60s sought enlightenment there. Then came the Deepak Chopra enthusiasts. And now, venture capitalists are seeking to cash in on a raft of Internet startups. But like the early spiritual travelers, most VCs are about to discover how elusive nirvana can be. Emboldened by the meteoric rise of Internet stocks on the Nasdaq, and starstruck by the billions made in the Silicon Valley, many Indians — bankers, industrialists, and stock brokers — have decided to become venture capitalists. In the past 18 months, the equivalent of $500 million was invested in more than 500 dot-com startups. The result: the subcontinent now boasts no fewer than 16 broad portals on India, 30 on cricket, 15 on women, and a dozen Web sites devoted to youth. The problem is that while India appears at first to be